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INTERVIEW
VANESSA VICENNES
Miss Vanessa Vicennes
Website: www.REALDOMINANTFEMALES.com
Email: vanessavicennes@realdominantfemales.com
Phone: 505.438.0864
Best way to contact me:
phone
Do you have a special title you like to be referred to as (Mam, Mistress,
Goddess, etc.)?
none
Why are you a Professional Dominant?
I am a professional Dominant because it gives me the opportunity to do what I love most, it allows me to exercise my creativity (for example the webpage construction). I hope it will lead me to the perfect someone that I’m looking for, and besides how lucky can one be to earn a living at what they love most! Lastly, it is very difficult for me to work “for” somebody else.
If you were to describe your job to a vanilla (non-BDSM) friend, what would
you say you do?
I always say that I work on
the internet. If they insist on particulars,
I just tell them the truth! When they are that curious about me, they are intrigued with
the answer.
Have you always been dominant?
ALWAYS.
What year did you begin?
Formally, about 5 years ago (1995). Before
that it was simply my personality type.
At what moment did you first start feeling like a dominant?
I’ve always had a
dominant personality, so I suppose when I took my first breath.
Do you have any personal fetishes or predilections?
I’m very fond of golden
showers. Sexually, I like oral service, CBT
(very fun decorating him as a Christmas tree), I’m very fond of shoes, heels, boots,
gloves, and fetish attire. I like roleplay
and military scenarios.
What brought you into Professional domination?
I was looking for a submissive
male and went to a meeting in New Mexico that I THOUGHT was a place for people of like
interests, a social group. It was represented to be such. When I arrived I discovered a PEP meeting and was
informed that PEP was a business. It was
intriguing to me, but I didn’t find any submissives that met my standards. Nancy called a few weeks later and said that there
was a NYC police officer that would be moving to New Mexico soon, and asked if I would
like to talk to him AND be paid for it. Since
I had been, up to that time, having to pay for my explorations and pursuit of the “perfect”
submissive, I was delighted at the opportunity. I
proceeded to talk to that submissive over a period of 3 hours, and although we never met,
I did not feel unhappy at the expenditure of my time/energy when he did not work out,
because I was paid for that time. After
working through PEP for approximately 2 years I left to start my own business.
What types of play do you specialize in?
Covered above under special
interests.
Do you have any special skills or training that you use in the dungeon?
Hypnotism, erotic mind control
. . . although these skills are usually reserved for use with submissives that are in a
continuing relationship under me.
What dungeon skill are you most proud of?
Complete mind control.
What one thing do you do every session no matter what?
Dress up.
How would you describe your style of play (psychological, tactile, teasing,
etc.):
Combination.
Describe your full range of play:
The range depends on whether
it’s a personal, or a professional session.
Do you have different roles you enjoy in the dungeon?
I enjoy playing Mistress, Top,
Executioner, Nurse, Doctor, Policeperson, prison scenes.
If you could educate every submissive about three things before they came to
see you, what would they be?
1)
dress comfortably
2) bring a gift in addition to the tribute . . flowers are always nice as is equipment
3) remember, She is investing a lot of time and energy in you. Oblige.
4) Before the session, thoroughly advise the Mistress of any needs (if you smoke, if you get cold easy, etc)
5) Tell the Mistress what’s going on with you during
session (if your hair is caught painfully, if the position is causing you pain)
What boundaries do you expect a submissive to abide by?
I expect formality from submissives . . . you are not a guest . . .
What play will you not get into and why?
I am not interested in play
with scat, blood, or (obviously) anything beyond that, particularly with “sometimes”
submissives.
How do you feel about body worship?
I encourage it, but wait for
permission after making your desire known.
How do you feel about infantilism?
Not really into that, but I
don’t mind age play.
How do you feel about cross-dressing?
I have many wardrobe items for cross-dressing.
How do you feel about blood sport?
What do you require from a potential sub?
FIRST: At least one paid telephone consultation in which
we will explore what will happen in the session, or if they are long distance we will
explore the logistics. The paid phone
consultations are a necessity. It allows me
to organize my thoughts, focus my attention, and explore the submissive and his/her needs.
Do you work with couples?Sure.
Do you work with women?Sure.
What are your favorite types of play partners?
Engaging, single men.
What are your least favorite types of play partners?
Exclusively gay men.
Do you keep personal slaves and if so, in what capacity?
I have a few locally with whom
I spend time each week. They are useful for
practical needs, and I enjoy the time we spend.
Do you work in a "house" or independently?
Independently.
Do you ever work with other dominants, switches, submissives, masters or
transsexuals?
On occasion I have a
submissive assist me, otherwise I work alone.
Do you accept gifts, if so what would be appropriate?
As noted above, I accept
gifts. I prefer flowers, plants, lingerie,
equipment, or lovely luxurious lotions.
What would be inappropriate as a gift?
A shot glass that says “There’s a sucker born every minute, but swallowers are hard to find.”
Describe your play space:
A large room with a four
poster bed, and a small room for quarantine type activities. The rest of the house is off limits.
What are you favorite and most unique tools?
I have some wonderful tools. My favorite being suspension gear. Some of My equipment will cause even a seasoned
sub to say “What’s that?” to which I will respond “Here, let Me show
you.”
What makes your space unique?
It is somewhat remote and
requires 4-wheel drive to get to it <smiling>.
How does your play-space make you feel?
In control.
What do you, as a dominant, fantasize about?
Finding the right person. Further information will be withheld until I am whispering in that person’s ear.
Sometimes pictures can't adequately describe a person, is there anything you
would like to say about your physical appearance?
I think the only thing that
fails to come across in pictures is my sense of humor, and humor is important to me.
What physical feature are you the happiest with?
My lush fiery hair.
What physical feature are your slaves most happy with?
They seem to favor my boobs
and my feet.
When you look in the mirror, what do you see?
A strong, intelligent,
independent woman, capable of both giving and experiencing untold thrills.
